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Does breaking up always have to be hard to do? There has to be a technique that allows breaking it off with a partner you are just not so hot for anymore that can spare her feelings and spare your ego - right? Unfortunately, like the song says, breaking up is hard to do. There are not many cases of easy breakups, but there are things that you can do to ensure that the breakup goes as smoothly as possible and everyone’s feelings are preserved in the process, these include:
Use your manners. Use tact while breaking up with someone. Although this may seem like common sense there are many people that forget this fact while breaking up. Just because you may not like the person at this moment doesn’t mean that you have never had feelings for them. Go easy on your partner and let them down gently.
Offer support. Let your partner know that you are there if they need to talk and encourage your partner to speak about any feelings that they may have. This is one of the most courteous acts which can be completed in the face of a break up and will truly get you positive karmic energy.
Don’t make a scene. There are many people that believe breaking up with someone in a public place can reduce the chances of the breakup going badly. Breaking up with someone in public should be avoided as it can cause the partner embarrassment if they are upset. Be as courteous as possible and choose a neutral break up location.
